February 12, 2008
Do Cats Mourn?
Scientifically, there is no way to answer this question. We can’t prove any of the emotions attributed to an animal, but we do know that they experience them. Pet owners who have several different animals notice behavioral changes that point to a cat’s knowledge that something is different after the death of a beloved owner or special friend. They may not mourn exactly as human’s do, however.
When a cat loses a special friend, whether human or animal, it may become less sociable for a while or spend more time crying or vocalizing in some way. It may respond to other animals in the household in a different way, either becoming more aggressive or becoming milder and more submissive. It may seek more interaction from its owner, or it may become moody and retreat as far away from other people and animals as possible.
Often cat owners question whether it is a good idea to allow surviving animals to see the body of the one who has passed away. Unless the deceased died of some contagious disease, this is a choice the pet’s owner must make personally. Some people insist that the smell of the body, whether the odor of death or the odor of the medicines used before death, is disturbing to the other household animals. Others find that by allowing their other pets to sniff or lick their beloved friend brings a kind of closure. Cats seem to realize that when another cat doesn’t respond to attempts to awaken it, it will probably regain consciousness.
Quite often owners report that the cats which are left behind begin to act like or take on the nature and habits that once belonged to the diseased cat. This is not a supernatural event. This is just the cats’ way of changing the hierarchy that had previously been established. A new cat must rise as the leader, taking charge. This cat may sleep where the previous leader slept, or be the one to communicate the needs of the other animals first.
Whenever a cat is mourning, it is the owner’s responsibility to give it more love and attention. Given time, the household will settle into a new pattern although the deceased will never be completely forgotten.














Comments on Do Cats Mourn? »
Hi, thank you for your article of Do Cats Mourn?
We had two cats. Kneelex our ginger Tom passed away about 3 weeks ago now. We have done pretty much what you have suggested in the article and Jess our only cat now, has become more wanting of love and affection. The only thing that seems to have changed for the worse for want of a better way of phrasing it, is that she has taken to not going out so much and as a result she has started to pee in doors, which is something she has never done since a very small kitten. Is this likely to be something that would pass? should we start using a litter tray again? What we have been doing is just talking to her gently and showing her what she has done and then putting her outside for a while in the garden. She want’s to come in almost immediately though. The cat that passed away was a male, but did not seem to be the dominate one between them. Sorry for all the questions. But just concerned about her and reaching out for some answers if you are able to help me with my concern.
Kindest Regards, Sharon.